Mans attempt to ice skate in a dress with kids present thwarted by rink management

Mans attempt to ice skate in a dress with kids present thwarted by rink management

Date: July 27th 2020

Time: 9:00am EST

Location: Alice Noble Ice Arena, Wooster Ohio

An adult male tried to ice skate wearing a figure skating dress and tights and was promptly told to leave as kids were present.

Management person: Seth Greenberg

Claims,

He was warned by other rinks of Steven Arness’s penchant for skating in dresses.

Kids shouldn’t be subjected to Steven Arness’s choice of attire.

Alice Noble Ice Arena is a nonprofit organization and therefore can say what Steven Arness can or cannot wear while skating.

This is Northeast Ohio.

Alice Noble Ice Arena is a nonprofit organization and cannot afford to lose money.

Person asked to leave: Steven Arness

Claims,

Seth Greenberg’s actions were discriminatory and uncalled for.

My attire did not violate any federal, state, county, or city laws.

Update, email from Seth Greenberg dated 7/31/20 “The adult ice on August 6th is available. There will still be young children in our building for our summer camp so the same rule applies regarding the skating dresses for men.”

Update, email from Seth Greenberg dated 7/31/20 “As long as there are children in our building you will not be permitted to wear a dress.”

Nonprofit organizations such as Alice Noble Ice Arena are places of public accommodations, and therefore cannot discriminate based on one’s sex.

One’s choice of attire is considered freedom of speech and is not restricted to any particular persons sex.

About Alice Noble Ice Arena,

The Alice Noble Ice Arena was a donation from the Donald and Alice Noble Foundation to the citizens of Wooster, Ohio. Donald and Alice Noble shared a fondness for ice skating ever since their first date on the Brookside Park Ice Arena in Cleveland, Ohio back in January of 1934. They continued to share special family time on the ice and would often travel to various areas to enjoy skating.

Their dream of donating an indoor facility for their community became a reality in the fall of 2002. The Bogner Construction Company was commissioned to build the 5.4 million dollar facility to include an official NHL size ice sheet measuring 200′ x 85′ and bleacher seating along with many amenities necessary for ice related activities. The facility includes five team locker rooms, a full service concession stand, pro shop, video arcade, meeting/party rooms and a lovely spectator room with a perfect view of the arena.

Alice Noble Ice Arena offers a Learn-to-Skate program, public skating, birthday parties, adult hockey leagues, an afterschool program and various sessions for hockey and figure skating. The arena is home to the Wooster Hockey Club, High School club hockey team, the Wooster Figure Skating Club and the Wooster Oilers Junior team. These organizations host several games, tournaments and ice shows annually which, in turn, draw overnight visitors to Wooster from all over the United States and Canada.

The Alice Noble Ice Arena management and staff continue to oversee the Noble family dream by taking great pride in providing quality programs in a clean, family-friendly environment. making it the coolest place to be!

Alice Noble Ice Arena can be reached at,

330-345 – 8686
seth@nobleice.com

About Steven Arness,

Steven Arness was always fascinated by the styles of clothing females were able to wear, especially wedding dresses, ball gowns, cheerleading dresses, majorette dresses, skirts, kilts, tutus, and of course, figure skating dresses.

One day while talking with his seamstress they asked him if he knew how to skate. Steven said no, of which he then decided to give it a try. He started in learn to skate at Kent State in his early 30’s and was quickly hooked and completed all the adult levels offered, however when he tried to progress further, he was told those lessons were for kids only.

Steven continued to skate during public sessions, but no coaches at Kent would teach him unless he wore pants. He eventually found a coach at Brooklyn Ice Arena, but upon returning the next year, his former coach told him that he would have to wear pants during lessons. He eventually found a second coach, and Steven at the time was wearing his warm-ups over his dress, of which they refused in allowing him to take them off. Finally one day Steven took them off before his lesson and that was the last lesson he had with them.

Steven works as a self-employed low voltage/fiber/security technician serving over a hundred customers and thousands of their clients for the past 27 years. He was also an operations manager at Airport Go-Karts and interacted with thousands of adults and kids over the 22 years he was there. Often he would ice skate at Brooklyn Ice Arena before heading into work. Off-season he would skate at Kent State Ice Arena and workout at the Student Wellness Recreation Center. In his time off he enjoys spending time with his wife watching movies, traveling, and the company of their many rescued animals.

Steven has been able to skate at other rinks without being asked to leave, but members of the Ohio skating community have ostracized him based solely on his attire. Steven has educated many on who he is, and some have come to understand who he really is. But many still try to limit his actions and ability to wear the attire of his choosing based solely on their own fear and not who he really is.

Steven Arness can be reached at https://thefifthedge.org/olive/contact/

#MenHaveLegsToo #Bigotry #DiversityandInclusion

July 27th, 2020

On July 27th I tried to skate at the Alice Noble Ice Arena in one of my favorite skating dresses, only to be approached by the manager saying that they would not allow me to skate in a skirt with kids present.

Walking up to the front door I was temperature checked and told good to go. I proceeded inside and took a chair outside the rink and proceeded to put my skates on. While tying my right skate a person approached me and said their name was Seth and that I would not be allowed to skate on the ice around kids while wearing a skirt. He also told me that other rinks had warned him of me skating in dresses.

I said my choice of attire is considered free speech and I’ve skated in Chicago and New York without issues, he said “This is Northeast Ohio.” I tried to argue my point and the error in their request, instead I was told that they are a non-profit organization. As such they can say what I’m allowed or not allowed to wear when skating and children shouldn’t be subjected to a man wearing a skirt. They then said I would be allowed to skate in a dress on their unadvertised adult freestyle sessions on Tuesdays and Thursdays. They asked if I wanted my money back of which i said would be in their best interest. I received a refund, put my shoes on, and left.

I’ve skated in a dress at plenty of places, kids haven’t been the issue, parents of kids at times have been an issue, and it’s unfortunate that they chose fear instead of education. I mean seriously, do they think someone dressed as I was would try to harm their kids?

#FearThoseWhoFearMe #Bigotry

July 24th, 2020

Back at the rink for some more practice, wore another one of my dresses that still mostly fits with my jacket and pants over top.

Made some more progress, unfortunately I didn’t mark off what I worked on and I don’t remember! But it was probably some forward and backward glides, crossovers, and 3 turns.

I asked one of the skaters who was interacting with my coach before if they took lessons from them, they said no, but did point out someone else who was skating that did. I approached them and asked if they were and they said yes. I told them I had a $10 credit and I would like to give it to them, of which they accepted.